It's A Game To Them
Women often view men picking them up as a sort of game. I mean when you look at it, there are all these "rules" men have come to follow. Some cheat, some try to edge things in their favor. Women talk about it with eachother. They have standard lines they learn when you ask them for their number. "Why don't you give me YOUR number instead and I can call you?"
I know that some, maybe even most women go out on weekends with the mindset of "I'm never going to meet Mr. Right at a club, but it boosts my ego to have men paying attention to me by the dozens, and I like to have free drinks. I love to dance with my girlfriends and be a tease. I love the power of shooting men down while pretending to be annoyed by it..." etc. I recently answered the question "What is it about fame and money and power that attracts women?" Women are attracted to this for a REASON. My opinion is that they believe on a genetically and socially programmed, unconscious level that these men are more intelligent, more fun, more interesting, more able to give them the liftestyle - and MOST IMPORTANTLY - give them the FEELINGS that they want. In his book "Influence" Robert Cialdini talks about a psychological principle called the 'Halo Effect.' In a nutshell, humans naturally assume that attractive and powerful people are smarter and more trustworthy than average people.
A woman desires a man that fits into her self image fantasies that have been forming since she was pretty young. And thanks to Disney these fantasies were imbedded even further than her genetic wiring ever intended lol.
Give a women those FEELINGS she's looking for and she'll treat you much the same. You need to learn how to push the button inside of women that creates these feelings. While women are interested in looks to some degree, they're more interested in how you make them feel. You must behave as if you confidently believe that you are the best thing for a woman, that you are going to make her feel wonderful inside. Women pick up on this and they respond to it.
Ask yourself the following few q's:
How would I walk if I believed I could make any women feel great inside?
How would I talk if I believed I could make any women feel great inside?
What would the expression be on my face if I believed that I could make any woman feel great inside?
How would I act differently if I were the kind of man that women dreamed about?
Then start doing these things. When you're talking to a woman just imagine how good you're going to make her feel.
Fake it till you make it. Just do it. Women will notice,.
